Abusive Relationships

ABUSE: To be physically violent towards others

An abusive relation ship is where someone in the conflict is violent torwds the other person.

For example hear are all the different types of abuse that can occur in any relationship

PHYSICAL ABUSE: where hitting and stuff like is involved.

VERBAL ABUSE: IS LIKE CALLING SOMEONE NAMES

EMOTIONAL ABUSE: IS WHERE YOU TRY TO MAKE THEM FEEL BAD ABOUT THEMSELVES.

MENTAL ABUSE: YOU TRY TO MAKE THEM FELL GUILTY.


Trevor

Abusive Relationships

Usually abusive relationships involve jealousy, control, trying to isolate the other person, they are violent and loses his or her temper quickly, may pressure you sexually, usually abuses drugs and/or alcohol. Usually claims that you are responsible for their emotional state.
They usually blame your when he or she mistreats you and has a history of bad relationships.
People that abuse others in relationships have usually had a bad past and are emotionally hurt in a way that only they truly know. The abusers are mostly guys that want the girl only to themselves and wont have much trust at all.
The abuser is usually full of rage when he or she acts out, the most common is emotional abuse and they don’t usually know that they are abusing the other or vice versa.


Tim

Madden NFL

So today is free write day so I’m going to write about my Madden NFL 2010 career. So I guess I will talk about the first career I ever made. I’m a wide receiver, 1 year pro (so I’m not that far into it.) I scored around 17 touchdowns, around 1857 yards reseving, and I dropped the ball around ten times. (The last few games I suck I blame it on bad weather.) Currently I play for the Buffalo Bills. I only have one year left on my contract with them. I’m only three games into the second season, (2010 by the way), and I’m already doing great 5 touchdowns around 500 yards receiving and a lot of pancakes. I think that I’m going to get around 25 touchdowns this year. But also I will leave the Bills and get on a better team like the saints but I will stay if I have to. So there you go pretty pointless right?

Ricky

Broken Bone

I have never had a broken bone. When I was playing football, I went too hard at a person that was blocking my way. So, I went full on and when I hit that person, I heard a big pop. Then I thought that I had broken a bone but when I got up I did not have a broken bone. The other person did because he hit me in the wrong way. He should have just put his shoulder in to me to stop me from coming a just pushed up on me and make me fall and after the game. I went to see if he was all right. He said that he was doing ok. So, after that we became friends tell this day.

Nick

Do you think tom is justified in breaking up his friendship with
Nick and Caitlen? No I think he's really upset with him but doesn’t
Want anything to break his crush away. So I obviously think that’s
A close call either for nick or her. Is loyalty important in friend
Ships? How loyal are you? Yes loyalty brings a lot of people
Together. My loyalty got me really far in friendships.

James

Will they get together

Yes, I think they will because he is trying so hard to get back with her and to make up with her. How I think he is going to do it is he is going to meet up with her and make it all up with her like he did with the dolphins and she’s just going jump right in his arms again. I think every girl or guy because there mind says it loves them when you just keep getting hurt but you don’t look at that, you just think of the good and happy memories that you just can’t let go… or the guy says he’s going to change and don’t fall for it because they are still the same old jerk.

Ava

Characters

Which character do I relate to the most? It is Caitlin. I am going through pretty much the same thing as her at this point in my life. I have to testify against my ex-boyfriend. And that is because he raped me. So I know it’s not the same, but I know how it feels to testify against someone you once cared about. It is one of the hardest things I’ve gone through since I was put in a foster home. I also know how it feels to stand in front of the person that hurt you. And especially the part of going into detail of what they did. It’s the worst part about the whole issue. I sometimes wish I never would’ve said anything about what he did because then I would never have to testify. But once you say something you are stuck to what you said, and you can go back on your word but it makes you look like the bad person. So therefore, I am testifying in court soon. Thanks for your time.

Sincerely, Brittani

Trust

Has anyone you trusted hurt you? Well if it hasn’t happened to you it will. I’m not trying to have a “half empty glass” but you can’t trust anyone. If you think you can go ahead and trust all you want but I’m almost done with it.
Ok what this is all about is I got hurt and it seems really dumb, but I got hurt by a girl. This girl I’ve had a relationship with her before. I knew she had a bad reputation then. But I decided to let her have another chance after she screwed up the last relationship we were in. She said she was different and wouldn’t hurt me again. It wasn’t true. She made the choice to cheat on me again. Well to credit she has changed a little bit. She actually told me that she cheated on me instead of someone else telling me. That’s how she changed. Big change right? Well you know what they always say once a player always a player right and for this person its true.
Well my point to this blog is don’t let your guard down because if you do you’ll get hurt. If you don’t believe me than you can find out yourself.

Boyd

Staying in Abusive Relationships

Hey, do you know why people stay in an abusive relationship cause if you do then why don’t you tell me.
But when I think of an abusive relationship it reminds me of the one that I used to be in and why I stayed in it is cause I thought I love the guy and don’t get me wrong I did and I probability still do. But when you get with a guy you don’t know what their bad side is in tell later on in the relationship but every one that goes through it at least two more times or more but how are we supposed to learn.
Hey don’t get me wrong, girls do it to there are good guys out there like there are girls.


Ava

Relationships

What will happen to nick relationship with his friends?
There relation will end. But I think that they will want to become his friends again tell he learn that there is no reason that he should blow up the way he does when he is mad at someone for stuff that is really stupid that he really does not have to get worked up over that much as he does when he is not getting his way a lot of the time so title he get his anger under control he will not have that many friend that will stay with him when it come to him be sad.


Nick

Violence

Is violence necessary? If so when? I think it is if you need to use self-defense and then you have to use violence in order to use self-defense. I think ghandi is saying if you every use violence then you must stay strong and not give up until you are successful.
Well if some one is violent tows me and hits me I will retaliate back! Because I’m not ganja let some one just stand there and hit me!
Is violence necessary? If so when? I think it is if you need to use self-defense and then you have to use violence in order to use self-defense. I think ghandi is saying if you every use violence then you must stay strong and not give up until you are successful.
Well if some one is violent towards me and hits me I will retaliate back! Because I’m not ganja let some one just stand there and hit me!

Trevor